Cambridge Widows
We get it
Welcome to our community of widows.
It’s the club which no-one wants to join, but we’re glad you are here.
“The biggest predictor of our outcome in facing the death of a partner is the love and connection to others.”
— Julia Samuel
What is Cambridge Widows?
Cambridge Widows is a growing support group for widows in and around Cambridge. It was formed by Judy Reith and Helen Judson, after being introduced by a mutual neighbour soon after their husbands died of cancer. Leonie Hyde now runs the group with us. We all share a passion to support other widows by providing friendship, connection and solidarity.
We have monthly meet-ups for widows which provide valuable support and friendship to cope with our grief, whatever our background. We also arrange social activities which are open to anyone who has been widowed (men and women), such as walks, outings and fund raising events for charities. In Spring 2024 we held the first Widowed Choir day in Cambridge.
Our Values
Acceptance: Connection: Friendship
Why Cambridge Widows helps
We are local. Our unique offer is meeting in person. So much bereavement help is online only, which is valuable, but nothing replaces the warmth and solidarity from meeting together. We laugh, we cry. We have difficult, fascinating, and reassuring conversations, that range from what to do with wedding rings, to managing family and friends, anniversaries, and milestones. At a recent gathering, one of our members called it a ‘wonderful hug of an evening’.
We are different women dealing with one of the hardest things you have to face. We are mostly aged between 45 and 65 at an age we did not expect to be widowed. Some of us are working. Some are mothers to teenagers or adult children. Some are not. One remarried recently.
We get it. Come and join us.
The Widowed Sing
The Widowed Sing 2024 took place in Cambridge on Saturday 5 October in aid of Hospice UK and Arthur Rank Hospice Charity. This is a scratch choir in a day led by choir leader Sophie Garner, open to anyone whose life partner has died. It’s an incredibly uplifting day of singing and connection alongside those who get it.
Date for The Widowed Sing 2025 to be confirmed.
Find out more
“I felt understood and held and felt I could just chat and listen to everyone, and be open about my grief in a safe space.”
— A Cambridge widow
Please note that we offer peer to peer support and connection. We are not a counselling service. If you are looking for in depth or more immediate support, we have listed organisations, books and podcasts which helped us on our Resources page.